Let's not get this one misunderstood. A girl can walk into a room and point to which ever man she wants and take him home and have fun with him for five minutes and be done with it. Any girl can do that. Any. Girl. Key word.... Any. Now let's dig a little deeper and recognize that not all girls are created equal. There are some girls that are at a place in their lives where they NEED to know that they can get any guy they want and will go home with whomever will give them the time of day. Other girls are a bit more evolved and know they have the liberty to be choosy in who they give their attention to. Either way, High quality girls and low quality girls get the opportunity to pick out whomever they choose and be done with it. The difference, though.... Is in the girl...
That's right... a high quality girl, has the ability to be picky.... She know's that she can scope out a room and go home with any one of them and never talk to them again... The other girl, she will go home with the first guy that will give her the time of day. You want to know how I know that? It's because I've been there. I've lived both ends of this spectum. I mean that's how I met my ex. Those girls who are so desperate to find love, they'll entertain anything and hope they call her the next day. Let me be clear. We all have physical needs.. But the biggest difference between a high quality girl and a girl that just strives for attention is how she presents herself.
High quality, chooses you....not the other way around. A high quality girl knows a good thing when she sees it. Especially at our age. She can see the difference in a guy that just wants to have a good time and a guy that wants more but is just scared because he's been burned before. A high quality girl, won't entertain a guy that she doesn't have a connection with. She's not going to waste her time on a guy that she knows full well is just hanging out in bars hoping they can pick up that girl that needs the attention. And she most definitely won't entertain the married men that tell her she is the most attractive girl in the entire room.. Dude. That does't matter. Because a girl that knows her worth and value won't entertain you for one second, knowing you're clearly not happy in your marriage and you're just looking for an outlet. Bark up someone else's tree.
With that being said, there are two different kinds of girls. Ones who knows what their worth, what they have to offer, and knows their value. Those girls are capable of taking anyone they what home for five minutes and never seeing them again. Why, you ask? Because we're confident enough in our own skin, that we know we don't need them to feel whole, complete, and loved.... etc. Because we know, those men aren't quality men. But women have needs too. I never understood how men can do that but women aren't allowed. It's always been weird to me.
The only difference between high quality girls and low quality girls, is that low quality girls are looking for love....They'll walk into a bar, thinking they're going to find their next husband. Girls, I can guarantee you, you won't. When you start to really stay in tune to who you are and what you're worth and what your value is, you'll then start to understand that you won't settle. So when I say a girl chooses you, I mean it. Men, I know you can recognize what I'm saying. You can smell out and insecure, needy girl a mile away and take advantage of that. I've seen it. But What I'm not so sure of, is why it's so hard for men, good men in particular, to recognize a good thing when it hits them square between the eyes. Part of me believes that they really do know a good quality girl when they see it. But the other part of me sees, more often than not, a man having a hard time recognizing that when a high quality woman gives him any attention at all, beyond the five minutes of fun, it's because she knows a good thing when she sees it. So she chooses you. She decided that you're the one guy she wants to put her energy into. You see, a good quality woman has been through enough bull shit in her life that she has the ability to be secure enough in herself to go home with any guy she wants. But with that, she also knows, hands down a good thing when she sees it. So when She gives you the time of day, know that she sees something in you that is worth giving her time and energy to. Even if you don't see it. That's the beauty of it, really.
So men, this is what it looks like... When she tells you straight out that she can have any guy she wants, but still chooses you, RUN WITH IT!! Boy, you have found yourself a Queen! She will not only, carry herself with confidence, and independence, as if she doesn't need you or any other person for anything; she also has the ability to be caring and nurturing toward anyone she believes is worth it, and she'll do it unconditionally. Without needing or wanting anything in return. If she chooses you, she will not only be loyal, she will follow you anywhere. She will be patient with you. She will back you up in your decisions, be your number one cheerleader while you follow your dreams, and she will go out of her way to be the one to take care of you when you're not feeling well. She will be your best friend that will listen to anything you have to say without judgement. She will be the best lover you have ever had, and that safe place at the end of your day. So when I say she chooses you..... Don't take that lightly. She is valuable. She is a diamond. She's not perfect, by any means. But she's damn perfect for you.
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